“It is not the exterior circumstances that must change; it is above all our hearts that must change.” -Fr. Jacques Philippe
▫️
He wasn’t writing about marriage, but whew, this quote sure is applicable to it, right? So often we think that if only our spouse would change, if only we had more money, if only whatever situation we’re struggling with in our marriage was different, things would be better!
▫️
But of course that’s not the case. Our circumstances may never change! And as much as we can try to change our spouse, the truth is that we can only change ourselves. So if you’re struggling with a less-than-appealing aspect of your beloved, look to yourself. What can you change about yourself that may have a positive impact on your spouse?
▫️
More importantly, look to God. It is in Him that we will find true fulfillment. It is He who gives us the graces to live out our marriage vocation.
